hey abuser,
I’m taking back my voice.
Our Mission
Our mission is to empower survivors of abuse to reclaim their voices and their lives. We understand the deep, lasting impact of verbal abuse—the helplessness, the loss of control over your thoughts and existence.
This platform is a sanctuary where your voice is not only heard but amplified. We are committed to providing comprehensive resources, fostering a supportive community, and creating a space where silence is broken, stories are shared, and healing begins.
Together, we are transforming pain into power, helping survivors regain control and rebuild their lives.
What are your rights?
The Right to Safety: You have the fundamental right to live free from violence, fear, and harm in your home and community.
The Right to Speak and Be Heard: Your voice matters. You have the right to express your feelings, thoughts, and experiences without being silenced.
The Right to Autonomy: You have the right to make decisions about your own life, body, and relationships without coercion or control.
The Right to Seek Help: You have the right to access support, resources, and legal protection without judgment or barriers.
The Right to Dignity and Respect: You deserve to be treated with respect and dignity, regardless of your circumstances or experiences.
The Right to Privacy: You have the right to keep your personal information and experiences confidential and to share them only on your terms.
The Right to Justice: You have the right to pursue legal action against those who harm you, and to seek justice for the abuse you have endured.
The Right to Heal: You have the right to take the time and space you need to heal emotionally, physically, and mentally, without pressure or shame.
Resources
24/7 confidential support via phone, chat, and text. Provides resources for safety planning and support.
Comprehensive info on health services, legal aid, and educational programs to prevent DV.
National sexual assault hotline and online chat support, plus resources for legal help and counseling.
Legal info and support for women facing DV, including state-specific advice and court guides.
Wide range of resources, research, and training materials aimed at preventing and addressing DV.
Support for young people experiencing dating violence through text, chat, and phone.
Advocacy, support services, and resources including safety planning and legal aid.
Crisis intervention, counseling, and shelter services for DV and other forms of abuse.
Directory of local resources for survivors of DV, sexual assault, and stalking.
Who we are
Hey Abuser is a dedicated platform born from the belief that everyone deserves a voice and the right to live free from abuse. We are a community that understands the profound impact of verbal and emotional abuse—the helplessness, the isolation, and the struggle to regain control over your life.
Our mission is to empower survivors by providing a safe space where their stories can be shared, their voices heard, and their strength reclaimed. We believe that healing begins when silence is broken, and we are committed to supporting each person on their journey toward recovery.
At Hey Abuser, we are more than just a platform—we are a movement. A movement that stands with survivors, offering resources, support, and a community that understands and cares. We may have started with just one voice, but together, we are building a powerful collective that will inspire change, provide hope, and make a lasting impact.
We believe in the power of unity and the strength that comes from shared experiences. Together, we are reclaiming our voices, restoring our dignity, and rebuilding lives.
Submissions
coming soon: Share Your voice
We’re building a powerful platform where your voice can be heard. Soon, you'll have the opportunity to share your story and express the pain that others have tried to silence. Your words will be shared with the world, offering a chance for healing, validation, and connection with others who understand. Whether you choose to remain anonymous or share your first name, this will be a safe space for your truth to be seen and felt. Stay tuned—your story deserves to be heard, and soon it will be.
hey abuser,
“I was told I was worthless for so long that I started to believe it. But today, I’m taking back my power. I am not the broken person you tried to make me. I am strong, I am resilient, and I will never let anyone make me feel small again.”
— LD
“You isolated me from everyone who cared about me, making me believe that I was alone. But I’ve found my strength, and I’ve found my voice. I am not alone, and I will never let anyone make me feel that way again. I am stronger than you ever imagined.”
— JD
"You made me feel like I was nothing, but in your attempt to destroy me, you only made me stronger. I’m speaking out now, not just for me, but for every woman who’s ever been silenced. We are more powerful than you could ever understand."
— SB
“For years, I lived in fear, walking on eggshells, never knowing what would set you off. Today, I choose to step out of the shadows and reclaim my life. You no longer have control over me. I am free, and I am proud of the woman I’ve become.”
—JW
“You silenced me with your words, your anger, your fists. But I’ve found my voice again, and I want the world to know that I survived. I’m here, and I’m finally free from your control.”
— AB
“You’ll NEVER touch me again.”
—RD